My mother was harsh and constantly told me I had jug ears and heaven knows what else. But she was devoted and a hard worker. Carmen Dell'Orefice More Quotes by Carmen Dell'Orefice More Quotes From Carmen Dell'Orefice I have had more magazine covers in the last 25 years than I have had in my whole elongated career. [...] Today I am in a territory that business considers unmarketable: age and white hair. Slowly, however, I started to own that territory little by little because I stood up for age. Carmen Dell'Orefice careers hair years My philosophy is the balance of remembering the past but not living in it, to know where you are in the moment, to project a little in the future and be ready to change. It's how you experience the grace to enjoy the smell of the pavement after a rain - the little things in life to make you satisfied. I never settle for anything that doesn't give me a modicum of pleasure if not total joy and satisfaction. It's allowed, that's what we're supposed to feel. How can we, from an empty cup, offer a stranger a drink of water? You have to fill that cup to the brim! Carmen Dell'Orefice rain philosophy past When asked her view of cosmetic surgery, Carmen Dell'Orefice replies, '”That's a very polite way of asking me, I'm sure, ‘Have you had a facelift?' Well, if you had the ceiling falling down in your living room, would you not go and have a repair? Carmen Dell'Orefice ceilings views fall We're all works of art in progress. Carmen Dell'Orefice progress works-of-art art Fashion is more about taste than money - you have to understand your body and tailor clothes to your needs; it's all about the fit. I do the alterations myself - I'm quite a seamstress - it's the influence of my Hungarian mother. Carmen Dell'Orefice clothes fashion mother I didn't marry to have children. I married to have a relationship, and I was blessed with one child. I was an only child, too - my mother was smarter than most women today; she just had me. Carmen Dell'Orefice blessed mother children There’s always a boyfriend... Whatever else I have to give up on, I won’t give up on love. Carmen Dell'Orefice i-wont-give-up giving-up giving I'm a working woman of 80 trying to work out what the image I can project is. How I can do it with, you know, dignity. Carmen Dell'Orefice dignity work-out trying As a model, I didn't have an identity; I was a chameleon, a silent actress. I was an amorphous thing. I wasn't full of personality, I was full of solitude and solemnity. I wasn't a cover-girl type. Carmen Dell'Orefice solitude girl personality I don't live for stuff and things, and if I had to live in a cardboard box, I would put curtains on it. Carmen Dell'Orefice curtains boxes stuff My life has been amazing. How many other ladies of 76 can say that the snapshot on their senior citizen's card was taken by Norman Parkinson? Carmen Dell'Orefice senior citizens taken We were so poor that my mother would often leave me in a foster home until she could raise enough money to rent rooms for us. Carmen Dell'Orefice mother home rooms If you had the ceiling falling down in your living room, would you not go and have a repair? Carmen Dell'Orefice ceilings rooms fall The money I've earned has enabled me to keep my life in my own hands. I had a terrific body, and I got paid for using it. Carmen Dell'Orefice my-own body hands The minute we don't finance the arts, the accountants, attorneys and politicians keep taking the cream of money off the top and it doesn't trickle down unless all of society understands that we must support the arts, whether it's ballet, opera, fashion. Fashion is like opera, is like ballet, is like theatre. It's a visual theatre. Carmen Dell'Orefice support fashion art I was friends with Salvador Dalí until the day he died. Lucky me. I can't say why. I didn't live to be noticed, I lived to enjoy the excitement of doing right that day, and I knew I was doing it right when they would have me back. That was the thrill for me. I yearned to be validated because my mother was stern and I never did much right, that's how I perceived it. Carmen Dell'Orefice excitement lucky mother I'm loath to do interviews. What comes out is generally not what I meant or thought I was saying or thought they were asking. Carmen Dell'Orefice interviews asking If your ceiling is falling down, don't you call someone in? I apply the same principle to myself. Carmen Dell'Orefice ceilings principles fall Even with a computer, I can't get rid of all the papers in my life. Carmen Dell'Orefice papers computer paper Fashion matters to the degree that it is, for the sighted person, the first language we speak to each other. We are... "judge" is a very harsh word, but we're taking in and we're evaluating. Who is this person? What do I have in common? Do I respect them? All of that is that unspoken visual impact. Carmen Dell'Orefice fashion judging common
