I'm okay, you're okay - in small doses. Jonathan Rauch More Quotes by Jonathan Rauch More Quotes From Jonathan Rauch A liberal society stands on the proposition that we should all take seriously the idea that we might be wrong. This means we must place no one, including ourselves, beyond the reach of criticism; it means that we must allow people to err, even where the error offends and upsets, as it often will. Jonathan Rauch errors mean ideas Leave an extrovert alone for two minutes and he will reach for his cell phone. In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially on, we introverts need to turn off and recharge. My own formula is roughly two hours alone for every hour of socializing. This isn't antisocial. It isn't a sign of depression. It does not call for medication. For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating. Our motto: I'm okay, you're okay-in small doses. Jonathan Rauch phones cells sleep What we have done over the last 40 or 50 years is systematically attacked and weakened the parties, the political machines, the professionals, and insiders, and hacks, and all the tools that they use to get politicians to play well together. And with those gone, you get chaos. Jonathan Rauch party play years Are introverts arrogant? Hardly. I suppose this common misconception has to do with our being more intelligent, more reflective, more independent, more level-headed, more refined, and more sensitive than extroverts. Jonathan Rauch extroverts independent intelligent It is no solution to define words as violence or prejudice as oppression, and then by cracking down on words or thoughts pretend that we are doing something about violence and oppression. No doubt it is easier to pass a speech code or hate-crimes law and proclaim the streets safer than actually to make the streets safer, but the one must never be confused with the other... Indeed, equating "verbal violence" with physical violence is a treacherous, mischievous business. Jonathan Rauch confused hate law For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating. Jonathan Rauch introvert extroverts sleep People think that politics just somehow magically organizes itself. It doesn't work that way. You need to assemble these huge coalitions of 535 politicians on Capitol Hill, and tens of thousands of interest groups, and tens of millions of voters, and assemble all those in government to get stuff done. Jonathan Rauch government people thinking In a liberal scientific society, to claim that you are above error is the height of irresponsibility. Jonathan Rauch height atheism errors In science we kill our hypothesis instead of each other. Jonathan Rauch hypothesis science After an hour or two of being socially on, we introverts need to turn off and recharge ... This isn't antisocial. It isn't a sign of depression. Jonathan Rauch extroverts two needs Donald Trump didn't cause chaos. Chaos caused Trump. Jonathan Rauch chaos trump causes More non-fringe, non-radical homosexuals emerge into public view every day. As the stereotype of the homosexual as antisocial deviant crumbles, a (political) party or faction that tolerates gay-baiting rhetoric in the name of 'family values' makes 'family values' look more and more like common bigotry. Jonathan Rauch gay party views The only thing a true introvert dislikes more than talking about himself is repeating himself. Jonathan Rauch introvert dislike talking Many actors, I've read, are introverts, and many introverts, when socializing, feel like actors. Jonathan Rauch introvert actors feels Parties and political systems used to be about excluding renegades who would never play well with others in government. Now it's actually systematically screening them in. Jonathan Rauch party government play Indeed, one modern President abjured God altogether, ending speeches with a chaste 'Thank you very much.' This was Jimmy Carter, the most genuinely devout President of the postwar period. Jonathan Rauch atheism speech president We started tearing down the seniority system on Capitol Hill. All of that begins in the '70s. It accelerates and continues in the '90s, and it's going on to this day. Jonathan Rauch seniority capitol-hill hills There were big problems with every system, and there always have been. Jonathan Rauch big-problems bigs problem We don't have a crisis of leadership in Washington. We have a crisis of followership. Jonathan Rauch followership crisis If every negotiation is conducted in public, then the minute one person says, well, what if we try this, next thing you know, the interest groups have piled all in, and the political opponents have shot it to pieces. Jonathan Rauch what-if political trying
