Our very sexual identities are artifices and illusions, the result of a lifetime of striving. John Stoltenberg More Quotes by John Stoltenberg More Quotes From John Stoltenberg Pornography tells lies about women. But pornography tells the truth about men. John Stoltenberg men lying sex Insistence on having a sexual orientation in sex is about defending the status quo, maintaining sex differences and the sexual hierarchy; whereas resistance to sexual orientation, regimentation is more about where we need to be going. John Stoltenberg differences sex needs
