Perfectionism means that you try not to leave so much mess to clean up. But clutter and mess show us that life is being lived. Anne Lamott More Quotes by Anne Lamott More Quotes From Anne Lamott You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp. Anne Lamott grief hurt heart Oh, my God. What if you wake up some day, and you're 65 or 75, and you never got your novel or memoir written; or you didn't go swimming in warm pools or oceans because your thighs were jiggly or you had a nice big comfortable tummy; or you were just so strung out on perfectionism and people-pleasing that you forgot to have a big juicy creative life, of imagination and radical silliness and staring off into space like when you were a kid? It's going to break your heart. Don't let this happen. Anne Lamott nice ocean kids Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you. Anne Lamott including minutes ifs Close friendships are one of life's miracles - that a few people get to know you deeply, all your messy or shadowy stuff along with the beauty and sweetness, and they still love you. Not only still love you, but love you more and more deeply. I would do anything for my closest friends, and they would do almost anything for me, and that is about as spiritual a truth as you can get. Anne Lamott spiritual love-you friendship Again and again I tell God I need help, and God says, 'Well, isn't that fabulous? Because I need help too. So you go get that old woman over there some water, and I'll figure out what we're going to do about your stuff. Anne Lamott prayer god water I do not at all understand the mystery of grace - only that it meets us where we are but does not leave us where it found us. Anne Lamott autism wisdom inspirational You can safely assume that you've created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do. Anne Lamott god inspirational life Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whether you're going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over people and circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are. Anne Lamott creating trying people Faith includes noticing the mess, the emptiness and discomfort, and letting it be there until some light returns. Anne Lamott return light faith Help" is a prayer that is always answered. It doesn't matter how you pray--with your head bowed in silence, or crying out in grief, or dancing. Churches are good for prayer, but so are garages and cars and mountains and showers and dance floors. Years ago I wrote an essay that began, "Some people think that God is in the details, but I have come to believe that God is in the bathroom. Anne Lamott grief prayer believe Sometimes I think that Jesus watches my neurotic struggles, and shakes his head and grips his forehead and starts tossing back mojitos. Anne Lamott struggle jesus thinking Hope begins in the dark. Anne Lamott healing dark inspirational Some people have a thick skin and you don’t. Your heart is really open and that is going to cause pain, but that is an appropriate response to this world. The cost is high, but the blessing of being compassionate is beyond your wildest dreams. Anne Lamott pain dream heart You have to make mistakes to find out who you aren't. You take the action, and the insight follows: You don't think your way into becoming yourself. Anne Lamott badass women mistake ... the reason life works at all is that not everyone in your tribe is nuts on the same day. [pp. 65-66] Anne Lamott tribes nuts reason Lighthouses don’t go running all over an island looking for boats to save; they just stand there shining. Anne Lamott acceptance running commitment You were loved because God loves, period. God loved you, and everyone, not because you believed in certain things, but because you were a mess, and lonely, and His or Her child. God loved you no matter how crazy you felt on the inside, no matter what a fake you were; always, even in your current condition, even before coffee. God loves you crazily, like I love you...like a slightly overweight auntie, who sees only your marvelousness and need. Anne Lamott crazy lonely children You are going to feel like hell if you never write the stuff that is tugging on the sleeves in your heart--your stories, visions, memories, songs: your truth, your version of things, in your voice. That is really all you have to offer us, and it's why you were born. Anne Lamott writing song memories Dogs are the closest we come to knowing the divine love of God on this side of eternity. Anne Lamott knowing dog sides Gratitude begins in our hearts and then dovetails into behavior. It almost always makes you willing to be of service, which is where the joy resides. It means that you are willing to stop being such a jerk. When you are aware of all that has been given to you, in your lifetime and the past few days, it is hard not to be humbled, and pleased to give back. Anne Lamott gratitude heart mean
