We're as good at talking ourselves out of fear as into it, aren't we? Maybe better. Deb Caletti More Quotes by Deb Caletti More Quotes From Deb Caletti You've got to say what you mean and mean what you say...Doubt in your voice is an open door people will shove right through. Deb Caletti voicedoorsmean The loneliness you feel with another person, the wrong person, is the loneliest of all. Deb Caletti being-alonelonelyloneliness Family was even a bigger word than I imagined, wide and without limitations, if you allowed it, defying easy definition. You had family that was supposed to be family and wasn't, family that wasn't family but was, halves becoming whole, wholes splitting into two; it was possible to lack whole, honest love and connection from family in lead roles, yet to be filled to abundance by the unexpected supporting players. Deb Caletti becomingplayertwo You've got to have someone who loves your body. Who doesn't define you, but sees you. Who loves what he sees. Who you don't have to struggle to be good enough for. Deb Caletti bodystrugglelove You have ordinary moments and ordinary moments and more ordinary moments, and then, suddenly, there is something monumental right there. You have past and future colliding in the present, your own personal Big Bang, and nothing will ever be the same. Deb Caletti bangsordinarypast To an untrained eye, need and love were as easily mistaken for each other as the real master's painting and a forgery. Deb Caletti and-loveeyereal We can get so wrapped up in our own misconceptions that we miss the simple beauty of the truth. Deb Caletti simple-beautysimplemissing Let me tell you, you either have chemistry or you don't, and you better have it, or it's like kissing some relative. But chemistry, listen to me, you got to be careful. Chemistry is like those perfume ads, the ones that look so interesting and mysterious but you dont even know at first what they're even selling. Or those menues without the prices. Mystery and intrigue are gonna cost you. Great looking might mean something ve-ry expensive, and I don't mean money. What I'm saying is, chemistry is a place to start, not an end point. Deb Caletti kissingmeaninteresting Marriage is like a well-built porch. If one of the two posts leans too much, the porch collapses. So each must be strong enough to stand on its own. Deb Caletti being-strongmarriagefamily Those questions you have? Whether he's the one, whether you feel about him the way you should, or whether the relationship is going okay? When you're not sure whether you're in love with someone or not, the answer is not. Deb Caletti shouldanswersway It's good to let God pick a man for you. We don't do so well when we pick them ourselves. They end up lipsticks in a drawer, all those wrong colors you thought looked so good in the package. Deb Caletti colorendsmen If fate is a shape-shifter, then loves is too. It can be, anyway, in its most dangerous form. It´s your best day and then your worst. It´s your most hope and then you most despair. Lightness, darkness, it can swing between extremes at lightning speed- a boat upon the water on the most dangerous day, and then the clouds crawl in and the sky turns black and the sea rages and the boat is lost. Deb Caletti fatecloudslove-is Rejection, though--it could make the loss of someone you weren't even that crazy about feel gut wrenching and world ending. Deb Caletti paincrazyloss Unconditional love is like a contry of two with no laws and no government. Which is all fine if everyone is peaceful and law abiding. In the wrong hands, though, you got looting and crime sprees, and let me tell you, the people who demand unconditional love are usually the ones who will rob and pillage and then blame you because you left your door unlocked. Deb Caletti unconditional-lovegovernmentlove-is I've wished for things and never really had the chance...It's time to stop dreaming and do something about it. You've got to know what you want, then...go. Deb Caletti chancedreamwant I had always had a little problem looking out for myself in love. I was afraid people would leave me. So I sort of clung and did everything possible to keep someone around. I didn't have a hard talk with myself about who I was keeping around. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. I clung to people like human life preservers. I thought i'd die if someone left me. Its ironic because now I'm the one who's leaving. Deb Caletti ironicleavingpeople You could try and understand people, you could read books and understand words and concepts and ideas, but you could never understand enough or have enough knowledge to keep away the surprises that both fate and human beings had in store. Deb Caletti fatebookideas Sometimes good choices are really bad ones, wrapped up in so much fear you can't even see straight. Deb Caletti choicesfearsometimes I had let want in, opened the door ever so slightly. But want without the belief you can get what you want is pointless. You have to hope, so I let that in too. You have to. To want things and go for them and believe, even in impossible situations...Hope was what you had when you had nothing else. Hope was the perfect shiny top on the Christmas tree, the glowing halo of every wish, the endless beacon of a lighthouse bringing tormented ships home at last. Deb Caletti glowinghomebelieve Bliss is the ocean, a towel on the sand, the sun out, the chance to swim in waves or walk dragging a stick behind you, a good book, a cold drink. Deb Caletti oceanswimbook
