You can't help someone unless she wants to help herself. You can give her a nudge, but if she doesn't want to help herself, no one is going to be able to force her to do anything. I like that "attraction rather than promotion" approach. Fergie More Quotes by Fergie More Quotes From Fergie Having confidence is so important, because how you see yourself, is how others will see you too. Fergie important A little party never killed nobody. Fergie party littles The right pair of shoes can change the feel of an outfit, and even change how a woman feels about herself Fergie stilettos pairs shoes I try to work out with my personal trainer for an hour, four times a week - we mainly concentrate on weights and running. If I'm on the road I sometimes do DVD work-outs in my hotel room - P90X and Insanity are a couple of my favourites. Fergie dvds couple running I may not have the type of voice you like, but I can sing. You can’t take that away from me, ‘cause singing is a gift from God, and when people say I can’t sing, it’s kind of like insulting God. Fergie insulting voice people With all the negativity in the world, I want to do something positive. Fergie negativity want world I think a lot of young teenagers try to get esteem from accolades from other people, or boys, and what you learn as you get older is that you have to create that within yourself. Fergie teenager boys thinking When I was younger, I used to be the cheater. But I'm not talking about going all the way.... I wasn't doing that in high school! I'd have boyfriends and then spring break would come around and I'd be a little bit naughty. Fergie cheater spring school I have learned more and more to enjoy my body when I have a few extra pounds on, just being more voluptuous. Fergie women focus beauty I love diamond facials - they leave me glowing and refreshed. Fergie glowing leaving-me diamond Instead of my telling people what they should be doing, it makes more sense to be an inspiration to them. I'm not perfect by any means. I've done some stupid things, and I'm very aware of that. In this day and age, you have to have a sense of humor about it, and at the same time, it's made me a lot more aware that you have to take responsibility for your actions. For me, it's about staying on the path. If I slip, that's OK; just get back up and keep focused. Fergie inspiration stupid mean I keep a journal. I like myself better when I just pour it out. It's easier sometimes, even if you write on a piece of paper and then tear it up, just to vent it out. Because in the past I have sometimes used interviews as therapy, and then I've regretted it because I'm going, "Wait a second, that is not for the world to know. That's for me to know." Fergie waiting writing past I remember having no money and debating whether I should go get fast food or eat at Mom's for free. Now I'm going to these fancy places on vacation and ordering room service. I treat myself because I remember not having it. Fergie fast-food vacation remember When you give people so much, you don't have anything left for yourself. Fergie giving people I feel more comfortable being honest because I don't have to "remember" my answers. You never forget the truth! I just have to learn how much truth to give, that's my boundary. That's my new thing. Fergie honest remember giving I'm very close with my higher power. I have a very strong connection with it. Fergie higher-power connections strong I would rather have a player who showed a bit of heart out there than one who just accepted things. Fergie accepted player heart I'm not going to lie: There are times I play mind tricks on myself, like that the french fries are poison. With desserts, I'll let myself have just one bite, but I'll look like a freak when I'm eating it, like when I did Duncan Hines commercials as a kid, just savoring every morsel. Fergie play kids lying I don't want to have a song like 'My Humps' and it be sagging down, so I pay attention to that area. A lot. Fergie sagging song attention I'm very ambitious, but I also love myself - which means I try to take care of myself. Fergie ambitious trying mean
