John Stoltenberg Professions : Author Born : 1944 Browse All Authors Top 3 quotes by John Stoltenberg Pornography tells lies about women. But pornography tells the truth about men. John Stoltenberg men lying sex Our very sexual identities are artifices and illusions, the result of a lifetime of striving. John Stoltenberg illusion identity lifetime Insistence on having a sexual orientation in sex is about defending the status quo, maintaining sex differences and the sexual hierarchy; whereas resistance to sexual orientation, regimentation is more about where we need to be going. John Stoltenberg differences sex needs Similar Authors F. E. Marsh author Iimani David author Beatrice Faust author Isabella Macdonald Alden author Isabella Beeton author Alan AtKisson author All Authors