Thom S. Rainer Professions : Writer Born : July 16, 1955 Browse All Authors Top 13 quotes by Thom S. Rainer Confident and courageous leaders have no problems pointing out their own weaknesses and ignorance. Thom S. Rainer weakness leader ignorance Some churches would rather die than to get out of the comfort of the past. Thom S. Rainer church comfort past The concept of an inactive church member is an oxymoron. Biblically, no such church member really exists. Thom S. Rainer oxymoron members church We will never find joy in church membership when we are constantly seeking things our way. But paradoxically, we will find the greatest joy when we choose to be last. That's what Jesus meant when He said the last will be first. True joy means giving up our rights and preferences and serving everyone else. Thom S. Rainer giving-up mean jesus Church membership is a gift. A gift must be treasured. It should not be taken for granted or considered lightly. Because it is a gift, we must always be thankful for it. And when we are thankful for something, we have less time and energy to be negative...Healthy church membership means you find your joy in being last, instead of seeking your way and being first. Thom S. Rainer being-thankful taken mean Passion means making the choice to do that for which we can make the greatest difference. It means saying no to opportunities that may be good but not the best. It means that the best path is not always the easiest path. Thom S. Rainer passion opportunity mean Healthy church membership means you find your joy in being last, instead of seeking your way and being first. Thom S. Rainer healthy joy mean So if we approach church membership from the perspective of entitlement, we have it upside down. You always ask first what you can do for your church. Thom S. Rainer membership perspective church Introverts don't like small talk conversation, but they typically don't mind writing. The more people can "see" you on Facebook, Twitter, Google+, or a blog, the more they will feel like they know you, even though you don't have one-on-one interaction with them. Thom S. Rainer google writing people Weak leaders of churches blame people and circumstances. Breakout church leaders accept responsibility and see God's possibilities in even difficult situations. Thom S. Rainer difficult-situations responsibility people Faith and optimism are contagious. Thom S. Rainer contagious optimism faith If outside forces and culture were the reasons behind declining and non-influential churches, we would likely have no churches today. The greatest periods of growth, particularly the first-century growth, took place in adversarial cultures. We are not hindered by external forces; we are hindered by our own lack of commitment and selflessness. Thom S. Rainer church-today growth commitment Churches should evaluate everything they do to determine how it can be done better. Thom S. Rainer church done should Similar Authors Ihab Hassan writer Ingmar Bergman writer Isabella Bird writer Ivan E. Coyote writer Al Feldstein writer Bert Sugar writer All Authors